In 1982 I came to Tulsa with my husband Michael. We moved from
neighboring state, Missouri, where I had enjoyed success in the field of
education, working with elementary and secondary teachers throughout the state.
Michael was a successful reporter, special correspondent and feature writer.
It was time for a change. Fueled with confidence, we came to
Tulsa prepared to make a move into the private sector. Within a month we landed
jobs in advertising agencies. Specifically, our mission was to build public
relations departments. Michael headed up his department and was given a large
office overlooking a pond. I was situated in a former broom closet across the
hall from the woman in charge of finances who, like the rest of the agency
staff, doubted any impact public relations might have on clients.
My career change was far more difficult than I had
anticipated. Moving to Oklahoma put me face-to-face with situations I had
written and taught about at the University of Missouri but had never
experienced. Sexism was one of the most startling facts of my new reality. I
knew it was difficult for women in the workplace, but how that actually played
out for me was a lesson in endurance, patience and belief in my own ability.
I soon began to seek out other professional women and to
learn about the accomplishments of women in Tulsa. I was disappointed to learn
about the departure of Germaine Greer, controversial as she was, from
her recent appointment at the University of Tulsa where, as Director of the
Study of Women’s Literature, her intention was to bring light to women’s
literary history and “try to turn the university into the Amherst of the
Southwest.” Her efforts were lasting, but in her own words, “Here in Oklahoma
they think ERA means earned run average.” Greer left.
But I stayed. I channeled my energy into making my own mark
in a profession dedicated to creative and informative communication. I sought
out women who inspired me and from whom I could learn how best to move forward
in the world of business.
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Nancy Ingram, editor of Tulsa Home & Garden, which later became
Oklahoma Home & Garden, published my first magazine article. Pat
Atkinson, a no-nonsense editor at the Tulsa World, helped guide me through the
process of creating and distributing news releases. Given my growing connection
to media, I admired Betty Boyd, a Tulsa broadcasting pioneer and
community leader. Karen Keith was a Tulsa television reporter to whom I
first delivered news releases. She went on to become a television news anchor
and executive producer as well as an entrepreneur launching two businesses. She
served as Mayor Bill LaFortune’s Director of Community Relations and is
currently County Commissioner for District 2.
Susan Savage, head of the Tulsa Crime Commission when I arrived in 1982,
was elected ten years later as Tulsa’s first female mayor, and recognized as
one of the top 25 mayors in the country in 1998. In more recent years I have forged
a friendship with Kathy Taylor who served as the state’s Secretary of
Commerce and Tourism prior to becoming Tulsa’s second female mayor. During her
tenure she oversaw the completion of Tulsa’s Vision 2025 projects, including
construction of the new downtown baseball park. Sheryl Lovelady, a political
analyst and former communications director for Mayor Kathy Taylor, is an
advocate for programs that promote women in politics.
I met and worked on several projects with Pat Woodrum,
Executive Director of the Tulsa City-County Library System who helped form
Tulsa’s Day Center for the Homeless. The story of Carrie Dickerson whose
efforts prevented the construction of two nuclear plants, including black Fox,
gave me hope that there were in Oklahoma strong women whose environmental
beliefs paralleled mine.
Penny Williams, Chair of the Oklahoma House on Higher Education Committee
became a friend as did Lydia Wyckoff, a curator of Native American Art
at Philbrook. Lydia’s thirst for knowledge was contagious and her focus on any
given day was always on the joyful pursuit of knowledge.
I was in awe of the philanthropy of Katie Westby,
patron of the arts and founder of the Tulsa Arts & Humanities Council; Leta Chapman, whose generosity resulted
in, among other fields, outstanding health services, especially for women at the
Hillcrest Chapman Breast Center; and many other families… McFarlins,
Schustermans, and Zarrows to mention only a few.
My interest in the arts was nurtured by the Tulsa Ballet
Company, founded by Moscelyn Larkin, one of Oklahoma’s five Indian
ballerinas, and by Teresa Miller, now Executive Director of the Oklahoma
State University Center for Poets and Writers. Teresa is an advocate for
Oklahoma writers. She has brought dozens of well-known authors to Tulsa to share
their wealth of knowledge and she spreads the word of local writers through her
television show “Writing Out Loud”, not to mention her availability as teacher
and mentor to would-be authors. Jeanne Tripplehorn’s rise to fame has
been consistent since my arrival to Tulsa and I have enjoyed her performances
in films and on television.
My friendship with Sharon King Davis dates back to my
early days in Tulsa. She has taught me how to shine in the world of business
and to engage in community activities with a spirit of determination. Sharon
never fails to greet me with a smile and warm hug. Nancy Feldman’s
example was particularly meaningful to me. When she arrived in Tulsa in 1946
with a degree in law from the University of Chicago, the only position she could
get with a law firm was as a secretary. She began teaching at the University of
Tulsa and was active in the community, eventually founding the Tulsa Center for
the Physically Limited.
Wilma Mankiller lived in Tahlequah where I first met her in 1982, She
became my friend and holds a special place in my heart. Gentle and quiet, as Principal Chief of the
Cherokee Nation for ten years, she broke through the male-dominated ranks of
tribal leadership and reinvigorated the Cherokee Nation through
community-development projects in which men and women work collectively for the
common good. A recipient of the Presidential Medal of Freedom, Wilma once said "Prior
to my election, young Cherokee girls would never have thought that they might
grow up and become chief."
Over the years I have continued to note the achievements of
women in Tulsa. As I put together this
presentation, so many came to mind: Norma Eagleton, first woman to serve
on the Tulsa City Commission; Peggy Helmerich, avid supporter of the
library and Hillcrest Women’s Health Center; Eddie Faye Gates, teacher,
historian and author who, as Social Studies Curriculum Coordinator for the
Tulsa School district, implemented a multicultural curriculum; Alfre Woodard,
Emmy and Screen Actors Guild award winner; Paula Marshall, who took over
Bama Companies the year I arrived in Tulsa and as CEO grew the company into a
worldwide business; Lucinda Rojas Ross, senior account executive at one
of Tulsa’s leading public relations firms, Schnake Turnbo Frank; and Mary
Beth Babcock, 2011 Oklahoman of the Year. Mary Beth is the proprietor of
Dwelling Spaces, a former storage space in a rundown section of downtown Tulsa
that she converted into a vibrant gift shop with eclectic offerings. Now one of
the centerpieces of the Blue Dome District her store serves as a creative force
and gathering place for artists, musicians, and authors and their
constituencies.
One of my early lessons in the achievements of women in
Tulsa came from what I considered a most unlikely source, the Tulsa Junior
League. Alas, I too continued to harbor stereotypes. Having always been interested in architecture
I was delighted by the art deco architecture in Tulsa, once known as Terra
Cotta City. To my added delight was the magnificent book “Tulsa Art Deco”
published by the Tulsa Junior League in 1980. The book subsequently gained
worldwide fame and was reprinted and re-released in 2001.
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There was much to be learned from these women in Tulsa and I
was encouraged. After two years at a local advertising agency, I decided to
strike out on my own with another woman, Joyce Gideon, and my husband Michael.
We formed Wallis Gideon Wallis and specialized in public relations serving
local and national clients. Joyce and Michael left to pursue other goals and the
agency became the Wallis Group and after continued growth of a project we
completed each year for Toyota Motor Sales, the client list was cut to one and
the agency was renamed Project Solutions. We closed our doors in 2009.
Now, 30 years since my arrival here, I enjoy the
companionship of a circle of strong female friends and I am grateful for having
known some remarkable women in Tulsa.
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In my research about the early days of Tulsa, the important
role of Native American women was notable.
Prior to the discovery of oil here, cattle was king. Drives
from Texas passed through Indian Territory, and shipments were made from Tulsa
by train. The Perrymans were among the earliest settlers, arriving in 1828.
Their ranch was the largest in the area, 60,000 acres reaching from 21st
to 71st streets and from the Arkansas River to Lynn Lane in Broken Arrow. The
First Lady of Tulsa at that time was Aunt Rachel Perryman. Of French and
Creek descent, she was married to George Perryman. Travelers were welcome to
stay a few days to rest up and eat at the ranch. Aunt Rachel let outlaws, whom
she thought of as boys, sit at her table, and baby chicks warm up in her kitchen.
In addition to her brood of seven,
children with no place to go went to live with Aunt Rachel. She was a legendary
hostess. Even Washington Irving stopped at her big ranch house, making note of
it in his “Tour of the Prairies”.
A descendent of the
Perryman family, Lilah Lindsey, was the second teacher at the
Presbyterian Mission Day School. She held bible classes, sometimes preached on Sundays and
even conducted funerals. Lilah also has the distinction of being
one of the first Creek women to earn a college degree. A strikingly handsome
woman of Creek and Cherokee heritage, she had hip-length hair and a disarming,
photogenic smile. She was likely photographed primarily because of her penchant
for civic involvement. A woman who made waves in a man’s world, Lilah was
involved in the suffrage movement. She was a teacher, ambassador, activist, and
friend to presidents. During
World War I she helped raise money and sold war savings stamps. Under her
leadership, the women of the county obtained pledges for $1,210,000.00.
Midway through the first decade of 1900, Tulsa’s cattle
industry faded and the city enjoyed a lucrative oil-based economy. The local
population of 1,400 at the turn of the century had increased to 18,200 by 1910.
Oil reined.
But at the heart of those first two discoveries, before they
could be oilmen and begin drilling, the would-be tycoons had to approach two Native
American women to seek permission to drill. It was on the land allotted to Sue
Bland that the first well was drilled in 1901 and Ida Glenn, a Creek
Indian, owned the land where oil was discovered the morning of November 22,
1905.
It may have been thought that the role of women in early-day
Tulsa was primarily that of homemaker, but the wives of the farmers, doctors,
ministers, oilmen, and merchants formed a number of cultural groups to promote
art, music, and education in the community.
Women headed the Mission Schools before the turn of the
century. They not only taught, but organized school societies and presented
school entertainments for the children. Ida Stephens, a Cherokee,
attended Moody Bible Institute in Boston. She came to Tulsa in 1884 and began
teaching. She was also a fine musician and it was not long before the children
learned to sing, including some of the Indian children who had not yet mastered
the English language.
The Veasey House, at 1802
S. Cheyenne Avenue, was built in 1912. James Veasey, an attorney, was one of
the founders of Holland Hall School and his wife taught Latin to Indian
children. Their daughter, Mary, was in the first Holland Hall graduating
class in 1924. A little-known fact about Mary is the important role she played
in saving a Tulsa landmark. During several drought years, she and the Veasey
handyman kept the Council Oak tree alive by taking buckets of water across the
street from the Veasey home on Cheyenne and dumping it on the tree.
Jane Heard Clinton was a socialite raised in Elberton, Georgia, where her
father was mayor. Her beautiful voice and well-trained skill at the piano made
her a star in social circles from St. Louis to Washington D.C. When her new
husband, Dr. Fred Clinton, brought her to the frontier town of Tulsa in 1897,
the lifestyle did not suit her. She helped alleviate the lack of culture by
rounding up nine other musicians in 1904 and having a meeting above a downtown
drugstore. Together they stirred up the social scene and culture by starting a
music club named Hyechka, the Creek word for music. The club is still active
today.
Adah Robinson was an art teacher at Central High from 1918 to 1925 and at
the University of Tulsa from 1928 to 1945. It was during the intervening years,
1926 and 1927, that she was invited to produce a design for the Boston Avenue
Methodist Church. Five architects had submitted designs, but members had
rejected them. Adah, supervising art teacher for the church’s educational
program and Director of the Tulsa Art Association, was asked for her advice.
She listened to the congregation’s ideas, researched the history of the
Methodist church, and felt that she could produce an acceptable design if she
were allowed to work with an architect of her own choosing, a former student,
Bruce Goff. Sketches were designed and proved acceptable. Adah Robinson was
given a contract by the church stipulating that she was to be supervisor of all
matters artistic, both in interior finish and outside design.
Tulsa’s first hospital was a six-room cottage near Archer and
Greenwood, co-founded by Dr. Fred Clinton to handle an epidemic of smallpox.
After the epidemic had passed it served as a general hospital but was closed a
year later in 1901. In response to an influenza epidemic after World War I, Morningside
Hospital, later renamed Hillcrest, was opened in 1918 under the guidance of a
registered nurse, Dolly McNulty.
To make certain that oil field workers chose Tulsa as their
domicile, civic leaders promoted a special 15-coach train, the Coal Oil Johnny, to transport the
workers back and forth to their jobs. They were served breakfast at the Pig’s
Ear, just across from the station, while the proprietor’s wife packed their
lunch pails. Upon their return in the evening, fried chicken and other goodies
awaited them.
At the same time, the women of Tulsa were taking advantage of
the growing culture and society in the city, set apart across the river from
the rough and tumble oil fields. In 1910 Nelle Jackson opened a lingerie
shop on the balcony of a downtown jewelry store. After a few months, business
was booming and the shop was moved into a larger building on South Main Street.
By 1916, Tulsa
was becoming the “Oil Capital of the World” and downtown streets were being
paved. Nelle moved her shop to the new Sinclair Building at Fifth and Main
streets where she introduced a new concept to Tulsa shoppers, giftwrapping. It was Nelle Jackson’s
belief that “Miss Jackson’s Shop exists for the sole purpose of making life
more elegant, more enjoyable and more relaxed for its patrons; and, in the
world of real values, culture counts for more than coin.”
Josephine DeHaven
and her husband built their first greenhouse in 1905 and sold flowers in
Shackles Drug Store. Soon the fresh cut flower business grew and Mrs. DeHaven
opened a Flower Room at Miss Jackson’s. Along with all the progressive
businesses in downtown Tulsa, Mrs. DeHaven’s also grew and moved five times
before ultimately settling at 15th and Boston. The shop personnel
made sure to incorporate artistry, integrity, and quality into every floral
arrangement. Their motto was “With roots in the past and our eyes on the
future, Tulsa has no equal in floral design.”
My
years in Tulsa have been years of constant discovery. I felt lost during my
first months here, and wondered at the sexism I encountered, but I soon recognized
the contributions of women in the formation and growth of Tulsa. They observed
needs and opportunities and did not hesitate to step in and take an active part
in solving problems and building ideas. During the early years the men may have
been more visible than their counterparts in most instances, but we have the
vision of women to thank for the multifaceted urban setting we call home. I
have told you about only a very few women, but I encourage you to explore the
history of Tulsa and discover how powerful we have been and continue to be.
What a wonderful story of the power of sisterhood and your courage! Thanks for sharing this personal journey Suzanne! I miss spending time with you and the wonderful women of Tulsa! Linda Lewis
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